Reclaiming My Voice, Power & Freedom
- Jun 3, 2025
- 2 min read
It’s not about what happened to you. It’s about what it asks of you.
When I started healing the sexual abuse I experienced as a child—abuse by my own father—I thought it had happened just once. But it hadn’t. It was much bigger. It lasted for 10 years.
It’s hard to face the fact that your own father put you through something like that.
This trauma wasn’t just about sexual abuse. It was also about ritual abuse.
No form of abuse is ever okay, but what made it even more painful was the silence. The secrets. The energetic grip that certain forces try to hold over you—to keep you quiet.
People close to you—sometimes even family who can’t face the truth.
Who scare you without even saying a word.
The loneliness in all of it.
That’s just not right.
What I experienced is not only my story. It’s part of a generational trauma—patterns and wounds passed down through my family for generations. This legacy shaped not just me, but those who came before me and those who will come after me.
Healing this is about breaking the cycle, reclaiming your power, and creating a new path for the future.
And I know I’m not the only one.
There are so many women out there who have lived through the same.
When you stay on the surface of the abuse, things may seem manageable. But when you go deeper—to the real depths—and begin reclaiming your power, your joy, your life… everything changes.
You start to feel people step back from you. Their projections. The energetic attacks.
You feel it all.
People who don’t truly see you. They have no idea what their energy is doing to you. And then, you begin to see the truth in everything—and you can no longer deny it.
And yes, everything collapses.
But it’s the best thing that can happen to you.
Because you don’t have to carry it anymore.
It was never yours to carry.
No one has the right to hurt you.
No one has the right to silence you to protect themselves.
If I can help just one woman who recognizes herself in this story, then it’s worth it to share mine.
Because this is not about me. It’s about standing for my story—so others can do the same.
So you can live freely in all that you do.
I knew I was the one who had to heal all of this. But I also know I’m the one who is here to bring it out of the shadow—into the world.
To say: You can heal this.
You are not alone.
You are safe in this.
Even when it doesn’t feel like it. Even when the resistance is fierce—it’s real.
But so is your power.
You can reclaim your life. Every part of it.
Lots of love,
Kelly
